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05/05/2012
The following is a paid program the views or claims made it or not necessarily those of WI OK staff management or sponsors. It's time for live with a flurry in the live. don't you only do. Leading 3009. Days. 37 Now reads like I was Until lie okay. At these things go to my and and I don't mean. May but I don't know what it means as far as celebration. And I have to apologize. For my voice. Because. It sounds like them for those in my generalist in the deal they would know Brenda and Kara. But it's my usual this is my usual. Deal this. Allergies in the spring happens again in the fall sometimes I get through it sometimes I don't. But. Killing our enemies here at least I can talk this morning I had down. I had a full day planned on Thursday. In New York feeling canceling because I had no voice and all. Thanks for what's the point if I'm going to see people to talk to them about how wonderful everything ends. With northeastern financial consultants but I can't talk kind of you know my headphones are shocked. I'm won wire act and the other end somebody's messing around that because there. Jake what's going on with I had found. Somebody's been sleeping in Colby earned the Papa spears then they think. Something like that yeah. That story called a lot from. So tell us about the view well well it was a great time the LeRoy essentially I'm here and for the boys there is goes blazers from them. I'm rusty BS. And I loved his comment. You had a question that you could come back again as an N many Henne said himself and the reason was because get a good run the. Put up. I loved that's good yes. Yes we have a lot of fun anything goes boys or something really. Cool and was a surprise you who was some nobody because I know some of them anyway. And I would what Chris Kelly Jimmy would be would have no because I know how you know how we right all right and you also and I don't personally so I knew he'd be funny and good and he in were like the bookends on gas. And so they played and that they played well off each other good course judge Gibbons who is just. He's just the shaking so he's so calm and you know bright chest and then it every now and then he comes up with a good singer so he was good and then of course found Chris Falco who's new to the panel. Who is he's a filmmaker and from and I'm mountaintop and he's releasing he's editing his. Third film called trust me which I actually read the script to Montana though it's it's great so he's in the middle of doing that he was. a very very subdued in past that he even nice nice nice guy. Very. and then OC and who's the co owner of going to cold. And Rocco even she's known to be allowed to have and he sort of a Little League that's I think if I have to say I think I'd say Iraq now because he was very. Not himself no he was he was he himself and his way but he was not. Like he said that is because I said what is I asked another question was one of what's what is your most. Marked characteristic. Can't characteristics and he said. I'm black I'm loud and so he wasn't that so he was he himself in his own way but he wasn't you know louder and louder as he usually is. And then rusty Just does a great job and he was talking about people. driver in the left lane and that you're not supposed to do this for more than two out two hours two miles a much surpassing someone. And he's like yeah a lot of didn't score but I just don't agree with exactly venues and everybody was hysterical about bad because it's true non. Yes many said judge ever arrest anyone for to any whenever appeared forty separate. Driving in the left lane is actually one thing they did. And then of course Chris Kelly You know you read his columns now ended it was she's just it was just a great a great night so that's good we very happy with the end of fired. Viewers into my season and the end of the series yes how many guys do you usually well you know always large well we usually have five. Men women and mixed by hand because of the way the setup is now and I'm moderate and I'm in the middle and not in the audience. We it looks better when it's an funny when it's even on both sides it's just me that's just me so we had six and actually. I thought it worked out really well last night because they were nice compliment. And every one of them but we sixty because it's just. What I said to the audience and it's true in this is what I love most about interviews and people who now when you can get people who are. And local celebrity status to. And people just assume they did what I wonder what they're really like I wonder what they really do will would step back on what they think what is their position and that's. Some people don't think about it some people really do and but most of the time to think we're just generally fascinated. With people who UC. And you want to hear what ever and they become a local celeb or celebrities in general and we wanna know more about what they're really like and I think when they come a time. Any show whether it's you know well and so from celebrities who won any talk show to local. Celebrities who could do this view I think it's a really neat way for them. To become sort of human just like everybody else just like. I don't think this thing is when your celebrity that you it's pretty much a one dimensional yes relationship the world. Because whatever. The media or your PR people would ever have created you to be And then when you put them in the situation like that where you ask some questions that you would ask anybody. It I think it's fascinating to hear. The multi dimensional component of who they are public humanize the anyway and that's climbs that's why I think this works because this. DO NN and what I loved about the guys is that they were very it was a lot of I sentiment and I think that's important so people could understand a little bit more. Closely what their life puzzle is the person that says that. One of the things emotionally tired. Characteristic was it was a tenderness yet Jim Jim MA and I said what do you find. I am most must admire in a man. You know okay. And end game James finalist and it was the right out 'cause a lot of times he would like sink in Gibbs is getting his name said one of his. You know what were the worst qualities is in patients of which of course I'm right up there with them and so Gibbs was sitting next to judge. And so when the judge without. Or shall I didn't go. Yeah it was perfect but he heard that he came right with that. Tenderness there's the month. It is a really good time very good and I didn't know events and proceeds under his real name was something other yeah it I don't know how to announced it is cynical HS how you say that a mentally a hundred different yes. I say it but yes that's his name and they asked an said can you your real name he's sure ice and other than yours to other. Q2 alias names really know the aliases it. But it's early. But. Ludwick in Latin scholar says we all. The plural of millions and she my kids and demonstrate their men around. I am so yes it was it was fun and that's good so what's next coming up with the cultural center. Well in next Thursday night we have our last of Thursday talks that IMAX is going to be. Best summer and barbecues if she can't it and wegmans is doing. Barbecuing and some tips some barbecuing and my brother Jimmy from Beer distributors is doing. The to kind of go I'm complement your pairings pairings with tier I am here Barbeque and beer pairings. Okay severe and very very mean consider my mind. Why not yes now that's a big thing beer with with stuff compare I think somehow get this we didn't want once before with Sam Adams. I twins at the cultural center yes. So she that's happening this Thursday and that's a lot of fun did you get a sample of the food and such and it's good fun to learn how to do things and and it's a guy thing you know yeah. I mean isn't barbecuing considered and yet it really is more traditional I think and they can have it because it's nice they want to stay in their flips and stuff and now you know smoky. How can take all the credit you know I'm Vowed to the barbecue love and getting all of the accolades on the stroking you need that. I don't wanna do it myself I have to also publicly thing. Mary terrorists and does segment were being here in since last week. It was really nice it was fun to listen You know I was in Philadelphia last week yes. For mom's birthday happy birthday show lately I have to say content have the 83 birthday yeah. So. It was fun to hear them talking about the Girl Scouts. Because it brought back so many memories. My own childhood being a brownie and a girl I'm. At the church up again ordinances and I'm gonna I'm happy they no longer sits down I know I forgot what was the name I yeah. now no hyphen RX sounds kinda hard presbyterian all that was. That was my church it was one that knows but it was so little small Methodist or Baptist Church in my corner PS neighborhoods against. And I remembered being there. I'm going to it's. Girl Scouts that was his plan I guess I don't want to thank you could fix our affiliate everything. But the thing I remember which is so funny and I don't know why I think about us at one point there was. A class and don't even know what bad as we could have possibly. Been working on but I remember being. This somewhere around ten to twelve years old. And Fran bullets. Who is who was friends point and they had to. Heard. Two person beauty shop and orange street. Team. Disney there and that little near mr. exactly where Anderson Elisa blood son or your kids and she came up and spoke to us as a Girl Scouts brownies I assume what at skin care not how you why they little high wash your face. you make sure you put certain Kyle designed to keep your skin. And she's the one. The first started then using that Sima. So why I can't. And I just don't tell me you still use no I didn't because it tries isn't even isn't even in the insist they still selling well I don't know. But I did I didn't answer my twenties. That's how long did your skin is beautiful snow laughed but the but the point is I don't you know he learned it once a twelve Chinese eye into thinking I can't. Great thanks to miss this old store within this summer. And his name was Vivian Vivian Indian blood where he lived you'll remember yes he lived didn't like somewhere far asked was if you're in the country not Ali multimillionaire. And then he traveled to this good old west side that I wonder why are announced his arm and north Hyde Park and and it was scored a block away from Terry about a funny. Is that wouldn't have done and I forget you yet. Yes I know she's the west so she lived that close and then we lived a black downs of course we always went. Would go there and exactly go into the bottom wooden floor yes door with all the beat the bottles that you had to take back for your deposit remembered. And then you buy candy and I can I was always there was wonderful when you think it was everybody loved mister yes. Q isn't this just plug your member. I feel sorry for EO comments are you know I had wondered whether it was a wonderful childhood experiences. Because they were wonderful couple And then she passed before he did and he would come their alone and he was wonderful to all the kids and we all went in for iron and snacks and candy in the end he was it a delightful guy so we we love them and I had never played so well Spanos and some standing army backed mr. would seasons yeah okay now that's right he went I know I could tell a story about my sister Barbara but I It took. It's a pretty high net no real quick break. We'll be right back you're listening this morning to live with our human league. Don't without voice. I mean your real voice but I know it's broke. And I'm the president and CEO northeastern financial consultants. We're the only firm and clarks summit. I know my cab the owner of marsh has meant to prices. Which is say. Pedophile priests PR and special event business I knew with his postponed Hello change it to a great sense kind Jake could produce a million. Pound. We were just talking before the break about our power. Childhoods. In west Scranton. Hand in in the past we've talked about. There seems to be part of our culture and northeastern Pennsylvania. And me against her jealousy or whatever it is. Of people who have succeeded. And that there seems to me a lesson. Resounding. Support for people to really be successful. In this area. Well it was sitting with was good about this class and we talked about that because of the election and me and and see when you do things like that boom boom you don't win. Right because he didn't win exactly. And you know who did yes and Carolina. Who cares I mean I how I would view it like it best. If this is the man who's been successful. Okay and has has done all the things he needs to do to be successful. And then decides because he's sick and tired of what goes on. And government wants to make a difference and decides to run for. Office would be man or woman and says hey I am I wanna make a difference I've done this business and I can go back to business so it's not like. You know I'll do what I have to do to get it done. That's Timmy makes more sense. In the same way. I'm just thinking of what nice nice on the other night on television. In one of those sound. I was there's generic term for what they aren't but they're the the soup. Hollywood today for any of those that may as it's those entertainment show us again that's an. Well there was some magazine shows I guess they would call them like People Magazine exactly. It solvent or my way hey okay my we'll there was some whole story going around about the accident. I believe person is and Romney. I'm blouse and NASA scientists now that happened to beef from a designer craftsman. and here's the point this is what they were talking about. What she was doing and in the moment that she was wearing this had something to do. With some conversation. About something that was talking about and the whole story about the fact that some woman that you know we missed this last week. I forget the woman's name a reporter. You mentioned that she basically disqualified. Any thing and Romney had to say because she's never had a real job. There was all that noise okay. So she was saying something in regard to that and India in some context. About her husband and all they focus son. Was this blouse she was wearing and what collection it came from and how much it costs home. Why is that relevant to anything. Well it's it's just the way it is I mean that's just to what people did the other thing is. Why do movie stars or anybody else can spend money. And by their own you know designer gown and the designers are throwing them them to Wear them for free or giving them to them. To just for their own PR but yet they can afford to do it doesn't make any sense. It makes no sense at all but I think down where it and step and say this is so once and in destiny the person the next stage here addiction. Here's what here Wear this for free because you're gonna be on the red carpet so. Yeah all this money is no I don't understand that and the people who. And what's the average Joseph she just go by it because they're not black bloc in the red carpet right white bias from the designer you're giving them business it's about business news home. I don't I don't understand and I and that that whole thing with the Booth commenting on what she wore. Who cares I don't I anyway no matter what we said and I know they aren't and the other thing is. Let go what is so hard to become an issue that the people who are in politics or whatever have to start. Apologizing. For their success announced. I don't know nobody should have to do that politicians or anyone who containers but I think backseat to Jackie Kennedy. really was the woman that started creating. This whole image of the First Lady being a very classy high level person. Before that nobody cared what designer clothes anybody war. But to hear how much she paid for an address. It doesn't make any difference south Entrust bunch of Internet isn't even the issue though it's not hurting show or blouse saying the issue. You clearly can't thank you. It's just really ridiculous I just I mean I I was like infamous fashion standpoint because I like to notice that kind of stuff that they that's beautiful wonder where she that are weird is. Like out which I think is really cool when Michelle Obama wears J. Crew sweaters the gap outfits. That's her style and that's what I love and that was that way people think all anybody can go and where it doesn't matter what desperate but there's of designer dresses she has done that that is being sad about the employers. Why don't we have the going is this why isn't even initially because they looked good. Welcome back he's the I think that's a whole other findings but each they have their stylists working while the They don't want glamour don't know exactly what nobody wants. Should be. But that's the shuttle back to my move earlier years I clamored don't I remember that this so and then of course is I'll read a mag I don't need there and it's still there as it is there's the Glamour Magazine was until I think so it. but I don't Wear is I don't read it so now we'll have neither she go let it again I'm sure it's there. But the thing it you know we can't disown about computers there's a But anyway that could the point it was making is about what it takes to be a millionaire. Because most people think. Well if you work really hard and you know or you have the right parents is another thing people's But there's an interesting story your bank named Russ Alan prince. Who I've known in in the business and financial planning he writes a lot of books with a lot of co authors. About the psychology. Of people who are. High net worth individuals. What sets them apart how do they think all kinds of stuff he does on research. He did this article for Forbes. That was about. What what he termed as a millionaire intelligence. And if you use it once a five times in this article this current new fee freeze that drives me insane. took its called Fatah leader. So everybody asks me a thought leader now I don't know what that means I can get and I can guess but it's just like it's the new buzz word Hire right so being a thought leader and acting like partly I'm so sick elicit an attorney keeps saying that I am because the front and you're seventeen times and I. you avoid saying it. Anyway he thinks says do TL and then we will OK you know leoneans Harry just could TL her hand. And he says unless you're currently. Employing. Millionaire intelligence. You're very likely let the opportunity for great personal wealth. Kenny says. heels and look at them everywhere. That the difference is that people who have. This millionaire intelligence. incredibly strong commitment. To what he calls extreme. Wealth. And he said among those were quite Weldon do we don't reach financial heights as the super rich. There's still a very powerful. Need and want success. Well there are exceptions to the rule meaningful personal wealth creators are Indies acutely focused. On the money. So those of us who think that we're doing things. For the betterment of mankind. Or whatever which is unfortunately. For a lot of women's businesses go they start with the desire to do something. It helps other people. And and they're not focused on the money. And shall meet the money exactly and I think that that's a very significant point. That most of us who are in business. Especially in northeastern Pennsylvania there are few that come out the cream of on the top. But for the most part we are people that have businesses that provide a service to others. And it's not that they invent that they didn't invent a way should they didn't do something utility that's the personalized. Most of the people who are in business are interactive with other businesses online and people more than businesses with other people. And and when you focus on providing the service rather than focusing on making the money. That's where you get into the I don't I can do both with and any well I mean I'm just thinking today I was reading in the front. Page of the Paper about them. on the Kerry's brother. is. Making whether a group of investors making a bid to dry they've done. Ali yeah Yang so. The point I'm making is he's not necessarily. In a business where he's interacting with people really doesn't make his money by selling Avon. He makes his money by the title page zoom right that's my point on I'm so. Even I think you Jerry Joyce who's mentioned in that article. And it's by Israel state. And then but it's very by Israel's safe so people who do these things and make a lot of money in our area. Are people that are really. They are there are not necessarily interfacing. Directly one on one with people. And that's for the eight that's basically what he's saying in here. Is that even though people who've been extremely wealthy have gone through. Some pretty tough times it seems obligatory that you have to have a couple bankruptcies through for the comfort. Huge failures. They never let that stop them because they stay focused. I'm glad they want. I'm kind moments okay so tennis I'm not saying it's good or bad I'm just saying that and you can when mourn and do that the women Jessica. I do you hunt because I think men are more focused on on the resides the is a success the bottom line than women. The men are more concerned about providing a service. And that's not wrong I'm not saying it's wrong. I'm just saying that the woman who wrote the book make mine aren't not to look tell Merlino we talked about her a couple weeks ago. Who wrote the book stepping out of line. She's the same woman who started. A program called make mine a million dollar business. Because. The research they've all done tent at the level of these think tanks. Is that women. It's so rare for a woman to make a million dollar business. That they wanted to find out why and it basically supports same thing that women provide services. And they they give so much away. That they don't know how to value of their services or how to really start a business and that's saying men know either. Lot of men have no clue when they walk into business. But women generally will give. Stuff away. From hard enough from my heart from our need to nurture gray and support Johnny we just do it because we don't want people to suffer from home. But what we fielders do is get paid appropriately for what we do have to look at the bottom line. And there are so many times and she says something in than of secret it's. Her friend lane Wallace. a flight instructor and a pilot. it was talking about the fact that she teaches a lot of men in her business. She's coming up from her observations the key difference between male pilots and female pilots. Is the gap between the skill level and confidence level of each group. The challenge with men is to bring their skill level up to their confidence and women's Israeli opposite break. The challenge for women is that there is the world she says there's thousands of confident men. Flying around Tony better skills and women with really good skills can really. I'd rather have control pill. Competent person yeah I didn't then I guess is though that ego than I cocky man yes yeah. I could save them announce I'm all right colts though we know with the good life and but I can't say I'm sure was. Use your imagination yes this is that so many women who are experienced well educated talented and more. Tell me that they struggle with a feeling of not being enough not knowing enough to go to the next level. It's so trivia. Oh my gosh this is so true. So I may know you know and our job is landslide. To get women here. That listened to chance to have more confident yes. And do it has since including UMB I know I know I see myself and a lot of Neptune Help me help me Rhonda I'm here right. But I think that's really important that we recognize we always undervalued our styles can never really look at the bottom line it's almost as if it's offensive. It's offensive to look at because. I talked to you know I'm doing that I feel good at the end of the day I can't pay my bills because but I feel good women are it's still not. Able to own their. There what they have what they what they can offer isn't as easily as a as a man can have Tyler Perry's just how it is until we need to have a little more. I'm. Must tell you when we come back contacted for I have a good one. All right you're listening this going to live with Larry we'll be right back. You know. CNN oh my name's Linda Evans and president and CEO northeastern financial consultants. First fee only financial planning firm clarks summit I'm Larry can I am the owner of Ken enterprises. Which is safe fundraising PR and special events business. No I was 'cause he's on the go ahead you wanna say something about. Where we left off. I'm just completely talking about and you know you know you wouldn't even my roast but so does being teased about my father saying you know. If you don't blow your own know it's gonna do it for you and that that reminds me of what women who don't still if you we treat people how to teach us we all So if you treat people to teach people to treat you like. And you are whatever is Hilliard the best at what you do your business is this what that's what how UB regard it. Because it's a matter of what how what you're showing people because people will tell you who they are. He's got to listen may really go show we UN we'll tell Leo. And showing you you just have to listen and pay attention to it because but women are much more afraid to to blow their own horn. Because they think it doesn't make them humble and I you know what I said about humble screw humble I don't need a life gets seriously I don't. I YouTube Q happy in the to what is it right. It well. If you're good your good if you can't believe you are you are I mean is stop it it doesn't matter doesn't make you look I mean and bragging what do humorous. If you come back get up that until well done what I sex if it's the people who hit. And and that's what does he vendors said yesterday we said. What what is what to do what he didn't most dislike in people and rusty so which was Grady goes. Those one outburst those people no matter what until they have Dave did did better faster stronger was all they can never take someone and listen to it it's always one Burst and that is that's true that there So I I just beat it. That there whatever it is that if there's validity if he can back it up that's okay it's of people we can't back up that bug me. What do you want the story about lunch. known not I don't know I was just saying that that's his. I was his serve is now I'm ready for now all I'm just hang in general I was a great story that would illustrate the point but it's just kind of again. treatment teach people and a trio. That's my favorite I know this is weird but I read that book that life lessons by Phil McGraw who I absolutely love love love him love him And he same ways I love doctor I mean those guys that the court created under Oprah were unbelievable. And and he I will read that book and one of the life lessons in there it is. We teach people how to treat us and then you read it and it's it's exactly right. Yeah I the other thing is he's you don't do some you're getting something out of it. It's another reason. Now why are you doing that IBC team gets something out of that. Cat or you wouldn't do it that right even if it's something threats around with these two yeah you don't have firm raises some whatever and it may not be positive reinforcement or in negative but when every that's threes. You don't and the I don't I was talking to the psychiatrist once about an interesting. I don't know what's causing a have a situation that people do a lot pushing him calling. And push me pull you remember that doesn't does very little betting that the points yes that's trip where they came from the idea. That what you do you push on one end you're pulling from the other so if you're doing this. Where you're telling somebody. How much you love them and blah blah blah blah blah but since I seconds later. You're saying something that is very or destroying pushing him calling her highness the kind of the thing that you just look I'm saying. Why should people do that because it's it's what getting out of they're getting something out and I don't know what it is but this is and I think human being here's your screens. Anyway I and LN and other book and read my favorite one of my favorites one what you think it in my. It was a great and computer and yes it is the right really is it goes under the same thing events and your Oregon home what you think about me is kind of what you think of me. What you think about is not my business. It's good. Palm Springs now bring that don't connect and tanks and to should have easy. And as a female Ph.D. and then. This is something that the same woman they'll Merlino. And her cookbook called stepping out of line and when I read it I was really blown away because it was so. Right on target. As one of those things that in the book and I'm writing ever get anything done. It's it's again at some point that I make many times over but I have never seen it written this way. She says. How she had her own business. And she says until that point if she decides to start her own business. She felt more comfortable focusing on other people's money and told herself that she couldn't have hers until everyone else here. Sounds familiar doesn't. Because if I was certain squeamishness and another dinner yes She felt a certain squeamishness about wealth and general along with a surprising envy. Whenever she considered another woman who was more financially successful the issue us. There seemed to be a shame. Attached to having money and shame attached to not having him. No wonder I was frustrated she says it was sobering to realize that I any independent single woman. Could always supported herself still harbored an good girl. Sitting on the size. In her party's rules. A girl who didn't want to because they're greedy who's still heard her mother's voice whispering that the hold tough because money was I know I love it I'm willing to thing and off nobody is true that I know that's a subtle message given. For so long and it insist it's YE we have one foot in and one foot out. It's this fear of being really successful means we're no longer women. Casesa story here you're not supposed to be a successful this in this fascinating. There's a lot of people I can think of who have that but there it could see if people are asked to describe and they would say they were greedy. For Damon said that about how much yeah because that's what date they act as though and there's a difference between. Acting greedy and acting successful and determined to make your him money. There's a big difference because Green is an awful thing and it's created so many terrible things with. All of these big people these Ponzi schemes he's brilliant student all of them locally I mean. All these people if that's not so good that the greed is disgusting manner and that's why I hate that word because it really is. A terrible thing when it comes still. What people don't. I say that all the time when greed and and and the nation of why. This the world that's what the Wii gets is that that's what gets us in trouble. Well it does get us and trust that the everywhere is that remains incidents isn't anti discrimination or client unsealed and blue blue After I say something fantastic you just say thank you get. Could you know I get yelled at us and I don't I know did you make that up now I that you know words but yeah. you know he's made of wearing. But it's clear to him she about the Lithuanian though because nobody would not open. It's good to love it and well anyway hey you know Scranton prep is in none New Mexico Then you're not there now. Did you have to rabid end well I just under is carrying out my nanny doing my job. the view and everything else yes yeah but. Yes Scranton prep. out competing for the national. Mock trial competition and what's the story with and I don't know yet because you don't know until today today they find out I spoke to shine last night. And he won two awards which she did not tell me but one of his friends my my good friend Judy wife who is Carmona sister sister. She texted me last nine cent a ditch can't tell you he won two awards and now he didn't. This so. But anyway they're out there and no today competing against all fifty states. In New Mexico Albuquerque so there's one representation from every yes. I have fifty shocked as everyone wins this date I guess is you know I should say it's all fifty I guess every and I think every state I'm. It has a mock trial competition so I'm I'm assuming it's all fifty I don't know that to be true but it is the national level. So I was so most states do and I'm guessing I'm. Tell us they keep moving up how many days another only there to debate each what they do is they break them up in so you won't compete against fifty. I don't break them up into segments I think there's force states that Pennsylvania would would be against. Prediction two different trials and then the two today and then they determined. Based on how they're scored in judged that the end. Last two years ago they went to states and they came in tenth. pretty darn good itself see what happens but from what I hear they they did a wonderful wonderful job once again. So where I hope has to everything goes well for Sean yes that sounds really good come of I was I had an interesting ones this week it. Because it was fans saying. My voice on an even worse than just talk ask him now. I guess they're just did you beat soup and no I I so I did and to save I did it feel better when I had spoonful of honey. I know I've been having honey with take. But I've been I had some New England clam chowder. Which was key because good I don't know. Because technically well now they say the and what do you mean which was good for years. Here is throw Massey didn't think this soup was good so I thought this that was why does the way use I had that aren't on that ligament I did again manhood I I was gonna say please don't say where you Well I have to say as you give moral a day goes on and so it was good I was Carl imovie there you go of course I had a wonderful severe. When we set the record straight you meant so being eighth. Being a broad based instead of a cream can continue you know doing Lisa was better because yes that's true yes if it was brought it would have been better my yes. Fears from a pro yes but I didn't think about that but and I for some weird reason I didn't even feel like eating. Maybe because my taste onto our shot from the hunting. So food didn't even tastes good. But I did have I just have some wonderful and I met with an attorney. My divorce attorney and we were talking about and a common client. And I was really fascinated by the fact that. I'm heat without any provocation from me. She acknowledged says he saw it kind of financial planner in the mix. I'm being professionals that women especially. Pullout could use going through this process time was and they were extremely beneficial yes yeah. And I it I thought that was a great perspective because. So many attorneys. And of giving financial advice. When they really aren't qualified to do it and I don't mean that they don't know it but it's not their area of expertise com. And it was just nice to to hear from someone acknowledge that and the role of a financial planner in in this process. And I was saying to him a things sent. I think. It is really important is. If you bring an understanding of the way certain investments in certain. Well I guess we'll we'll start with investments but just how that works from a tax perspective. From the way these things develop. Over the years. Even to sell life insurance policy and understanding how all these things work. It's really it can make a huge difference. In a client's life hump because if you start from where you are in the moment and divide copy according to how things are then. It can have huge repercussions on the negative side. 1015 years down the road. Especially if you're looking at life insurance and you're saying well term insurance policies don't last for ten years what do you do on the eleventh here. Finally caught about the fact when he got divorced. But of the kinda things the perspective. That financial Handspring in the process which certainly makes a big difference. And then I was reading an article from a guy named Barry wrote erosion and pronounces his name. But how to win when facing divorce is a book and he wrote any book and he also acknowledges. And his words heart. The very common mistake. People make is seeking divorce financial planning advice from a lawyer his other financial planner and then question. But no that's hints on planning but I think you know a lot I'm not the saints had simplistic. But I really think there's anybody who was. Thinking of a divorce or is in the process of a divorce. It's great idea to get a financial planner on your team. Now before the settlement is complete time because you have to live with hat color is certain tests show it's over Then yeah finality. So there we are working otherwise. is okay now one that's Sunday again. Harry got my Mother's Day my boys so beautiful. Anyway we'll see you next week everybody have a great week. Okay.
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